who is who really?

Lately I have been paying more attention to the roles of men and women in society. I found that men are acting more like the stereotypical female and females are acting like the stereotypical male! women stereotype : sweet, sensitive, caring and quiet. The entire list before this sentence is false. Women I know are the opposite, or are really complex . The female I observed for this blog was raw, loud, confident and very insensitive to peoples  feelings(men mostly). The stereotype for men : confident, Independent and strong. False again. From observing more than one male my results equal the female stereotype! I also found that men have to be complimented on the same physical feature more than one time to satisfy their crazy egos. The stereotype that men think about sex more is also false. From conversations I've had women, they think about sex just as much or more than men do. 1950's stereotypes can be thrown out the window. Looks like a switch is happening. So who is really playing who nowadays?